療癒暗中破壞
【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒暗中破壞》
今天的卡片是《療癒暗中破壞》。暗中破壞最常見的形式,是我們偷偷希望事情出差錯。我們把成功跟犧牲搞混了,而且無法想像駱駝的背上還要再多那麼一根稻草,所以光是想著要前進到更大成功,我們就吃不消了。雖然這看起來像是別人幹的、是某件事導致的,但這其實是我們所希望的。暗中破壞的所有形式都來自罪惡感與自我攻擊。今天,放掉評斷與犧牲,我們就可以放下暗中破壞。暗中破壞不是處理問題的正確方式。祝你有個最多釋放的一天!
HEALING SABOTAGE is the card for today. The most common form of sabotage is when we secretly want it to go wrong because we can't stand the thought of going forward to more success because we have confused sacrifice with success and can't imagine being in any more sabotage. While it looks like it was someone or something else it was actually our wish. All forms of sabotage are from guilt and self-attack. Today by giving up judgment and sacrifice we can let go of sabotage, a mistaken way of dealing with another problem. Have a most freeing day!!
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