療癒仇恨

【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒仇恨》

今天的卡片是《療癒仇恨》。仇恨來自於夢碎，來自「身旁某個人、某件事衝著我們而來」的信念。恨，代表我們向外尋求幸福快樂；然而潛意識顯示的是，除了我們自己外，沒有人在剝奪我們的幸福快樂。我們會這樣做，通常是要保持獨立、照自己的方式行事，不過也是在控訴各自的重要他人，包括老天。仇恨會與自我憎恨產生惡性循環，所以我們最好寬恕自己和那些當事人，好學會課題，讓生活前進。恨會製造出自我毀滅的生活模式，因此最好放下恨，換個比較好的方式。祝你有個精彩出色的一天！

HEALING HATE is the card of the day. Hate comes from shattered dreams and the belief that someone or something besides ourselves has done something against us. Hatred means we are looking outside ourselves for our happiness but the subconscious shows that no one deprives us but ourselves. It is mostly to have independence and do things our way but also to indict different significant people around us including God. There is a vicious circle of hatred and self-hatred so it behooves us to forgive ourselves those involved,to learn the lesson and to move forward in our life.  Hatred makes a self-destructive pattern in our lives so it is best to let go and have a better way. Have a most remarkable day!!