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療癒〔是對的但不快樂〕

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒〔是對的但不快樂〕》 今天的卡片是《療癒〔是對的但不快樂〕》。小我的每道信念系統,都是「我要是對的」的例子。發生在我們身上的一切不快樂,都是「我要是對的」的例子。今天,我們可以釋放一切自以為義的地方,讓天堂教會我們什麼才是真理,因為真理會帶給我們自由與幸福快樂。祝你有個精彩的一天! HEALING WHERE WE ARE RIGHT INSTEAD OF HAPPY is the card for today. Every belief system of the ego is an example of being right. Everything that happens to us that is not happy is an example of being right. Today we can relinquish all that we are being right about and let Heaven teach us what the truth is because it will bring us freedom and happiness. Have a brilliant day!!

療癒壞人心魔

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒壞人心魔》 今天的卡片是《療癒壞人心魔》。無論是投射於外、或是深埋心底,每每我們有了一個壞人心魔,這個心魔就會用憎恨與自我憎恨,以最負面的方式設定我們的人生。今天,我們可以不再把自己釘上十字架,並且將寬恕帶進來。當我們在別人身上看到壞人心魔時,我們可以寬恕自己內心那位,因別有所圖而編排故事、投映故事的壞人心魔。今天,我們可以得著自由、活出幸福快樂! HEALING THE VILLAIN SHADOW is the card for today. Whenever we have a villain shadow whether it is projected out or kept inside, it programs our life in the most negative way with hatred and self-hatred. Today we can give up the self-crucifixion and bring forgiveness. Where we see it with another we can forgive the villain inside that planned and projected the story for a certain purpose. Today we can be free and happy!!!

靈魂天賦

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《靈魂天賦》 今天的卡片是《靈魂天賦》。靈魂天賦是你帶來的,為的是要豐富自己與別人的人生。靈魂天賦可以扭轉原本會往負面發展的事件。這樣的扭轉會為大家省下許多的痛苦與負面模式。今天,你的靈魂天賦可以不斷不斷地開啟。你可以回到負面事件中,開啟能療癒情況的靈魂天賦,讓你佔得先機,而不是當一個受害者。祝你有個美好的一天,充滿樂趣與順流! SOUL GIFT is the card for today. A SOUL GIFT is one that you have brought in to enrich your and others' lives. It has the power to reverse events that could turn out negatively. This saves everyone a lot of pain and negative patterns. Today you can open SOUL GIFT after SOUL GIFT. You can return to negative events and open up the SOUL GIFT that would heal the situation making you proactive rather than a victim. Have a wonderful day of fun and flow!!

敞開緊掩的心門

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《敞開緊掩的心門》 今天的卡片是《敞開緊掩的心門》。碰到各種挫折、創傷,我們常常就會對自己關上門。這樣會限制住、甚至會阻斷關係、信心、與天堂或他人的連結,以及幸福快樂。我們關閉心門,常常是因為,碰到的那個人,早就在他的生命中,關上了一道道心門。緊閉的心門,會引發恐懼、無價值感。今天,我們可以回到過去顯然自己鎖上心門的地方,重新敞開。然後,我們就能夠幫助有相同情況的人,協助他們打開心門。天使們都喜歡敞開心門來給出幫助。你也可以用直接了當的方式來進行。像是這樣的問題:你在金錢、性愛、愛等方面關上了幾道心門?祝你採用「開放政策」,過個美好的一天! OPENING THE CLOSED DOOR is the card for today. In any kind of set back or trauma we typically close doors on ourselves and this can hamper or even shutdown relationships, confidence, success, connection with Heaven or others as well as happiness. Usually when we shut doors it is because we were with someone who had already shut these doors in their lives. Shut doors lead to fear and unworthiness. Today we can go back to times we obviously closed doors and reopen them. We can then help everyone else in the scene to open their doors. The angels love to help with door opening. You can also do this categorically, such as how many doors you closed on money, sex, love, etc. Have a great day and emb

療癒〔缺乏自我含括〕

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒〔缺乏自我含括〕》 今天的卡片是《療癒〔缺乏自我含括〕》。缺乏自我含括,會引起競爭、鬥爭、死寂,導致匱乏、不健康,辛勤工作後領受的卻比應得的少,造成缺乏認可、隔絕孤立。我們曾經做了錯誤的選擇,在後來變成了一種信念。今天,要把這錯誤的選擇找出來,用真理,以及神性的慷慨賞賜,來翻轉這個決定。天堂始終都是將一切送給我們的。剝奪我們的人始終是自己。這絕對是個錯誤的選擇,然而,這個決定是可以得到轉化的。祝你這天開啟心門,領受到全新的層次! HEALING THE LACK OF SELF-INCLUSION is the card for today. This lack of self inclusion leads to competition, fights and deadness. It leads to scarcity, ill-health and working hard but receiving less than you are due. it leads to lack of recognition and isolation. Today we can find the mistaken choice we made that became a belief and reverse it with truth and Divine Largesse. Heaven is always giving everything to us. It is only we who would deprive ourselves and that is always from a mistaken choice that can be transformed. Have a day that opens the door to receiving at a whole new level!!

浪漫

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《浪漫》 今天的卡片是《浪漫》。浪漫為關係潤色,為親密跟愛騰出一條路來。浪漫可以創造前進的順流,讓你和夥伴的意願結合在一起,一同實現你們的目標。是什麼能打開你夥伴的心?整體來講,是什麼讓這一刻能鼓舞人心?祝你有個美好、甜美、浪漫的一天! ROMANCE is the card for today. ROMANCE embellishes a relationship and makes way for intimacy and love. It can set up a flow forward and bring your wills together with your partner in a way that can you can co-create your goals. What would open your partner's heart and what in general would make it an inspiring time? Have beautiful, sweet romantic day!!

療癒左右為難的陰謀

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒左右為難的陰謀》 今天的卡片是《療癒左右為難的陰謀》。左右為難,是被相等的力量往對立的兩邊拉。左右為難,是來自孩童時試圖選擇母愛或父愛時的兩難。其實,真正的答案是,兩邊的愛都可以得到的。要化解左右為難,就要承諾致力於自己、真理、前進,直到答案自己浮現。如果你採取了這樣簡單的方法,那麼無論是誰、是怎樣的事情,都會展現兩方最好的部分。但前提是你有承諾獻力,並且向前進。祝你這天有真理、有自由,過個美好的一天! HEALING THE DILEMMA CONSPIRACY is the card for today. A dilemma is getting pulled in two equally opposite directions. Dilemmas come from the dilemma of trying to choose between mother's love or father's love as a child when really the answer is both. A dilemma is solved by committing to yourself and the truth and going forward until the answer shows itself. If you do this simple solution whatever or whomever shows themselves will have the best of both but only if you commit and go forward. Have a great day of truth and freedom!!

消除

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《消除》 今天的卡片是《消除》。雖然小我會用有破壞性的消除方式,但這張卡代表的是天堂的消除,擺脫一切問題核心的恐懼與罪惡感,進而化解問題。這天很適合來修正你生命中的誤會。除非是你為了某種錯誤的動機,而緊抓著這份誤會不放,否則錯誤終將得到修正。祝你得著自由,過個美好的一天,! UNDOING is the card for today. While the ego uses a form of undoing in a destructive way this card is representative of Heaven's UNDOING to get rid of the fear and guilt at the root of every problem thus dissolving the problem. It is a great day to have mistakes in your life corrected and they will unless you are holding on to them for some mistaken reason. Have the most wonderful day of freedom!!

憐憫

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒有自我逼迫的地方》 今天的卡片是《療癒有自我逼迫的地方》。我們會逼自己要成功。然而,自我逼迫就代表,我們有分裂的心靈。我們想要成功,卻又想要獨立,害怕成功會讓我們重新有親密連結,而我們就無法做自己想做的事了。自我逼迫是因為,我們先是對自己有要求,隨後也會對別人也有同樣程度的要求。這些要求都來自,我們分離走向獨立時所產生的需要。今天要放下、目標設定,而非自我逼迫。這天,放下你給自己施加的一切壓力,恢復你生命中的順流吧! HEALING WHERE WE ARE PUSHING OURSELVES is the card for today. We push ourselves to be successful but pushing ourselves shows a split-mind where we want success but we want independence also fearing success will rebond us and we will lose doing what we want. Pushing ourselves come from demands we make on ourselves and therefore on others to the same extent. These come from needs which came about when we separated to become independent. Today is a day to let go and goal-set instead of pushing ourselves. Have a day of letting go fo all the pressure you have put yourself under so you can restore the flow in your life!!

療癒有自我逼迫的地方

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒有自我逼迫的地方》 今天的卡片是《療癒有自我逼迫的地方》。我們會逼自己要成功。然而,自我逼迫就代表,我們有分裂的心靈。我們想要成功,卻又想要獨立,害怕成功會讓我們重新有親密連結,而我們就無法做自己想做的事了。自我逼迫是因為,我們先是對自己有要求,隨後也會對別人也有同樣程度的要求。這些要求都來自,我們分離走向獨立時所產生的需要。今天要放下、目標設定,而非自我逼迫。這天,放下你給自己施加的一切壓力,恢復你生命中的順流吧! HEALING WHERE WE ARE PUSHING OURSELVES is the card for today. We push ourselves to be successful but pushing ourselves shows a split-mind where we want success but we want independence also fearing success will rebond us and we will lose doing what we want. Pushing ourselves come from demands we make on ourselves and therefore on others to the same extent. These come from needs which came about when we separated to become independent. Today is a day to let go and goal-set instead of pushing ourselves. Have a day of letting go fo all the pressure you have put yourself under so you can restore the flow in your life!!

療癒黑暗故事

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒黑暗故事》 今天的卡片是《療癒黑暗故事》。我們寫在心靈深處寫了黑暗故事,並以此故事設定我們的人生。故事主題或是罪惡感、心碎、復仇、生病、獨立、或需要。我們寫黑暗故事,是為了某種錯誤的目的,不能讓我們幸福快樂的目的。今天,要發掘我們自己所寫的黑暗故事,放掉這些故事,讓愛、幸福快樂、豐盛、成功的故事來取代。祝你這天有個美好人生的故事! HEALING DARK STORIES is the card for today. Dark stories are written by us at a deep level of the mind and they program our lives accordingly. They can be guilt, heartbreak, revenge, sickness, independence, neediness, etc. but we write them for some mistaken goal that won't make us happy. Today is a day to discover the many dark stories we have and to let them go and have them be replaced with love, happiness, abundance and success stories. Have a beautiful life story day!!

深感欣喜

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《深感欣喜》 今天的卡片是《深感欣喜》。這是用以慶祝的一天。重大的突破是唾手可得的。 是時候享受臨到你的事了。祝你有個開心美好的一天! REJOICE is the card for today. It is a day to celebrate. Big breakthroughs are at hand. It is time to enjoy what is coming to you. Have a great and joyful day!!

嬉戲

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《嬉戲》 今天的卡片是《嬉戲》,這已經是這週第二次抽到這張卡片了。顯然,這張卡會為我們的生命帶來春天。有嬉戲,我們就會有很多的能量、生氣勃勃,像小羊歡跳,充滿新生命。放下舊有的重擔吧。我們只是拿這些重擔,來撐住自己所造的形象而已。天堂會給我們更好的真相,不會是充滿痛苦、悲慘、重擔。讓自己成為老天所造的自由靈魂吧。今天,讓自己無憂無慮吧。讓自己回來吧。過天堂為你準備的生命故事 ── 黃金人生故事!! FROLICKING is again the card of the day, the second time in two weeks. This is obviously a card to bring a springtime in our lives. With FROLICKING there is so much energy and exuberance that we gambol about like a little lamb full of new life. Let the old burdens be dropped. They were just a way to support the image of ourself that we made. Heaven has a much better truth about us that is not full of pain, distress and burdens. Let yourself be the free spirit that God created. Let yourself be carefree today. Get yourself back today. Have the life story Heaven wants for you—a Golden Life Story!!

療癒是對的但不快樂

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒是對的但不快樂》 今天的卡片是《療癒是對的但不快樂》。今天,你有感到痛苦、煩惱的地方,你可以把它看成是你自以為是的地方。小我很想要自己是對的,因為小我想掩蓋自己造成多少罪惡感的事實。於是,小我會試圖補償,但這樣只是在掩飾自己所造成的罪惡感,以及它在我們生命中製造出來的死寂感。「打造出小我的是分裂,我們會找各式各樣的藉口來分裂,尤其是當受害者、責怪、怨懟、評斷。今天,釋放這些自以為是的地方,你就能擺脫痛苦,鬆綁小我對你的挾持。祝你有個自由自在、幸福快樂的一天! HEALING WHERE WE ARE BEING RIGHT BUT NOT HAPPY is the card for today. You can look at any pain or upset that you are experiencing today as a place where you are being right. The ego craves to be right because it wants to hide how much guilt it is causing. It then tries to compensate for it but this just hides the guilt it has caused and sets up deadness in our lives.  What builds the ego is separation and we use all kinds of excuses to separate especially being a victim, blaming, grievances and judgments. Today relinquish these areas of being right to be pain free and you will relinquish where the ego holds you hostage. Have a free and happy day!!

療癒動物心魔

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒動物心魔》 今天的卡片是《療癒動物心魔》。心魔是我們憎恨的自我概念,因此我們會壓抑心魔、將心魔投射出去。關於動物心魔的方面,我們有時會有負面思考,會把自己想成是大白鯊、鼠輩、笨豬、倔騾、虎豹、惡龍、或是我們有所評斷、投射到動物、他人身上的一切。今天,讓我們療癒這些設定、監禁我們的自我概念。讓我們將心靈交給天堂來鬆綁。天堂看我們,可比我們自己想的要好太多了。祝你有個美好的一天! HEALING THE ANIMAL SHADOW is the card for today. Shadows are self-concepts that we hate and so they are repressed and projected. In regards to animals we could think negatively of ourselves as a shark, a rat, a pig, a mule, a tiger, a dragon or anything we have judged and projected on animals and others but it is what we really believe about ourselves. Today let us heal the self-concepts that program and imprison us. Let us turn our mind over to Heaven to untwist it. Heaven thinks so much better of ourselves than we do. Have a great and wonderful day!!

空白的盧恩符文

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《空白的盧恩符文》 今天的卡片是《空白的盧恩符文》。這象徵的是某個時刻,我們蒙了召,就算不曉得結果如何,仍全然給出。今天就是這一天。不管你要給的是什麼,都祈求天堂支持你,加大你的給出,好讓成功的機會更為豐盛。祝你有個有使命、有願景的一天! THE BLANK RUNE is the card for today. It symbolizes a time when we are called to give it all even though we don't know the outcome. Today is that day. Ask Heaven to back you up and super size whatever you give today so there is a much greater chance of success. Have a purposeful and visionary day!!

空白的盧恩符文

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《空白的盧恩符文》 今天的卡片是《空白的盧恩符文》。這象徵的是某個時刻,我們蒙了召,就算不曉得結果如何,仍全然給出。今天就是這一天。不管你要給的是什麼,都祈求天堂支持你,加大你的給出,好讓成功的機會更為豐盛。祝你有個有使命、有願景的一天! THE BLANK RUNE is the card for today. It symbolizes a time when we are called to give it all even though we don't know the outcome. Today is that day. Ask Heaven to back you up and super size whatever you give today so there is a much greater chance of success. Have a purposeful and visionary day!!

我是要生理衝動還是奇蹟動力

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《我要的是生理衝動還是奇蹟動力》 今天的卡片是《我要的是生理衝動還是奇蹟動力》。生理衝動會從轉移原本在奇蹟動力上的焦點。因此小我會利用許多生理衝動,不讓我們注意到天堂帶來的奇蹟。今天,讓我們保持覺知吧。這樣我們才能收到奇蹟,將自己和世界從許許多多的蹉跎與苦難中解救出來。祝你有個滿是奇蹟的一天! DO I WANT PHYSICAL IMPULSES OR MIRACLE IMPULSES? Is the card for today. Physical impulses distract from miracle impulses. So, many physical impulses are sent by the ego to distract us from the miracles that are offered by Heaven. Today let us keep our awareness so that we can accept the miracle instead as we can save ourselves and the world so much time and suffering. Have a miraculous day!!

嬉戲

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《嬉戲》 今天的卡片是《嬉戲》。這張卡指的是開心好玩的活動。無論是什麼天氣,這都包含了春天的能量。嬉戲會讓精神為之一振,帶來好多樂趣、以及有趣的開展。祝你有個返老還童、開心快樂的一天! FROLICKING is the card for today. This card denotes playful and delightful activity. It contains the energy of Spring no matter what the weather. it is refreshing and it has so much fun and funny unfolding. Have a rejuvenating and happy day!!

靈感

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《靈感》 今天的卡片是《靈感》。靈感會指引我們,向我們顯明道路。靈感會創造順流,是天賦的領袖力才華。靈感會顯示出更好的路,而更好的路始終是天堂為我們準備的計畫。祝你有個美好又有啟發的一天! INSPIRATION is the card of the day. INSPIRATION guides us and shows us the way. It creates flow and is a natural leadership gift…It shows a better way which is always Heaven's plan for us. Have a beautiful and inspiring day!!

誠實

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《誠實》 今天的卡片是《誠實》。這張卡描述的是敞開、真理、真誠。因此,誠實也會促進公義與和平。有時,我們會為了滿足需要、得到他人認同而說謊;其實,我們可以用更為成功的方式,來面對自己的需要。今天,讓誠實療癒你生命中所有的角色與補償吧。祝你有個充滿真理與自由的一天! HONESTY is the card for today. It is a card that depicts openness, truth and sincerity. As such it promotes justice and peace. We lie to get needs met and get others' approval when we could deal with what we need in a much more successful way. Today let HONESTY heal all the roles and compensations in your life. Have a day of truth and freedom!!

療癒賤人性格

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【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒賤人性格》 今天的卡片是《療癒賤人性格》。賤人性格指的是抱怨、生氣、惱怒、什麼事都取悅不了他。今天,要將我們的成熟度提升到全新的層次,讓我們成為更好的夥伴,因為這樣我們才能領受、招來享受。今天,讓天堂負責你的心靈與療癒,解開你的心靈,為得幸福快樂的順流。祝你有個開心順利的一天! HEALING BITCHINESS is the card for today. Bitchiness reflects complaints, anger, irritation and the inability to be pleased about anything. Today is a day to lift up our maturity to a whole new level and let ourselves be a better partner because this is what allows us to receive and it invites enjoyment. Let Heaven be in charge of your mind and your healing today to untwist your mind for a happy flow. Have a smooth and happy day!!

療癒我們在添造新業的地方

Chuck博士每日一卡《療癒我們在添造新業的地方》 今天的卡片是《療癒我們在添造新業的地方》。今天,我們別再更進一步監禁自己了。我們今天要來找出自己正在監禁自己的地方,並且將自己釋放。今天,要了解,到最後,我們是唯一一位能監禁自己的人。我們若明白這點,便能明白,只要我們想要釋放自己,我們就能夠做到。祝你們大家全都能過個極好的一天! HEALING WHERE WE ARE MAKING NEW KARMA is the card for today. Instead of imprisoning ourselves further today is a day to catch ourselves where we are doing that and instead free ourselves. Today is a day to realize that ultimately only we are the ones who have the the power to imprison ourselves. On the day we realize that we also realize we can free ourselves whenever we want. Have a magnificent day y'all!!

療癒成了小我教師的自己

Chuck博士每日一卡《療癒成了小我教師的自己》 今天的卡片是《療癒成了小我教師的自己》。當我們以自我為中心的時候,渴望關注的小我就會掩飾住課題。 尤其是我們黏人需要人陪,需要藉由聽眾得到個人利益時,更是會發生這樣的情形。讓我們來意識到,我們原本要給出幫助時,這事有多常發生。要反過來,將我們永不滿足的部份交給天堂來解除,這樣才能分享有更真實的自己。祝你有個神奇美好的一天! HEALING OURSELVES AS THE EGOCENTRIC TEACHER is the card for today. When we are egocentric The lesson is clouded by our ego wanting attention. This can especially occur if we are needy and are using our audience for personal gain. Let us beware of how much this occurs where we are meant to be helping and instead turn these parts of us that are never satisfied over to Heaven to undo so we have more of our true self in our sharing. Have a great and miraculous day!!

吸引力

Chuck博士每日一卡《吸引力》 今天的卡片是《吸引力》。這說的是出於自信、美好、平等看待人的自然魅力。這是領袖力的才華禮物,本意是要用在領人走上正確的方向,不是要用在個人的放縱、小我的滿足上。今天,享受吸引力帶來的順流吧。 ATTRACTIVENESS is the card of the day. It speaks of the natural charisma that comes of confidence, beauty and seeing others as equal. It is a gift of leadership meant to be used for leading people in the right direction rather than for personal indulgence or ego gratification. Today enjoy the flow that comes with ATTRACTIVENESS. It can make everything easier in your life. Have a great and joyful day!!

死神(塔羅)

Chuck博士每日一卡《死神(塔羅)》 今天的卡片是《死神(塔羅)》。這不是身體的死亡,而是小我的死亡。這意思是,我們對小我的投資是會崩壞的。或指的是,深藏的情緒浮現,感覺像是要死掉了。但我們若是接納了每道情緒、狀況的微妙差異,我們就會穿越到新的層次。接納會帶來情況的進展與展開。因此,為得新生,接納你小我的死亡吧。祝你有個復興重生的一天! DEATH (TAROT) is the card for the day. It is not physical death but the DEATH of the ego. This means that something that we were invested in for our ego may fall apart or there may be buried emotions that come up to make us feel like dying but if we accept every nuance of the emotions or situation we move beyond it to a new level. Acceptance leads to progress and the unfolding of the situation. So, accept the death of your ego for a new birth. Have a happy day of renaissance!!

療癒不神聖的同盟

Chuck博士每日一卡«療癒不神聖的同盟» 今天的卡片是《療癒不神聖的同盟》。當我們和自己的內在層面有不神聖的同盟時(包括黑暗無意識),我們就會在外頭的世界受到引誘。今天,我們可以潔淨自身的舉止,擁有天真無罪、神聖之愛、神聖臨在的力量。過個天真無罪、無憂無慮的一天吧! HEALING UNHOLY ALLIANCES is the card for today. When we have unholy alliances with aspects of ourselves including the dark unconscious than we gravitate toward them on the outside. Today is a day where we can clean up our act and have the power of innocence, Divine Love and Divine Presence. Have beautiful day of innocence and being carefree!!

療癒特殊性-偶像

Chuck 博士每日一卡《療癒特殊性-偶像》 今天的卡片是«療癒特殊性-偶像》。特殊性把所有事都搞得跟自己有關,是關係裡最大的破壞者。除非我們是藉此作為療癒自己、改變自己的養份,否則所有的問題、情緒、小我的誇大,都會從關係中竊取。若懷有特殊性,如果我們沒有得到自以為應得的對待,我們就會覺得受辱、生氣。反之,我們是可以擁有關聯性、親密、分享、連結、建造關係的愛的。特殊性這偶像會竊取生命與關係中的享受……今天,放下這道問題,好有個美妙的一天吧! HEALING THE IDOL OF SPECIALNESS is the card for today. Specialness makes everything all about us and it is the great destroyer of relationships. All problems, emotions and ego exaggerations steal from the relationship unless we use all such aspects as fodder for healing and changing ourselves. With specialness we feel angry and insulted if we are not treated according to how we think we should be treated. Instead we could have relatedness, intimacy, sharing , bonding and the love that builds relationships. The idol of specialness is one that steals the enjoyment out of life and relationships...Have a beautiful day that comes from giving up this problem!!