療癒特殊性－偶像

Chuck 博士每日一卡《療癒特殊性－偶像》

今天的卡片是«療癒特殊性－偶像》。特殊性把所有事都搞得跟自己有關，是關係裡最大的破壞者。除非我們是藉此作為療癒自己、改變自己的養份，否則所有的問題、情緒、小我的誇大，都會從關係中竊取。若懷有特殊性，如果我們沒有得到自以為應得的對待，我們就會覺得受辱、生氣。反之，我們是可以擁有關聯性、親密、分享、連結、建造關係的愛的。特殊性這偶像會竊取生命與關係中的享受……今天，放下這道問題，好有個美妙的一天吧！

HEALING THE IDOL OF SPECIALNESS is the card for today. Specialness makes everything all about us and it is the great destroyer of relationships. All problems, emotions and ego exaggerations steal from the relationship unless we use all such aspects as fodder for healing and changing ourselves. With specialness we feel angry and insulted if we are not treated according to how we think we should be treated. Instead we could have relatedness, intimacy, sharing , bonding and the love that builds relationships. The idol of specialness is one that steals the enjoyment out of life and relationships...Have a beautiful day that comes from giving up this problem!!