療癒外遇

【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒外遇》

今天的卡片是《療癒外遇》。外遇是小我使我們不能專心前進的手段。外遇分裂了我們的心靈，讓我們往關係之外去追求。要是能量與關注有持續放在自家伴侶的身上，那麼，我們外求的那份特質，將會在自家伴侶的身上發展出來。就算我們嚴重解離，不覺得外遇有甚麼不好的，我們的潛意識仍然會承受不同層次上的內疚感。於是這份內疚感就會橫梗在你和伴侶之間。就算是離了婚，你和新伴侶之間還是會有這層阻礙。小我是靠分裂來取勝的；分裂就是小我的組成元素。當我們解離、毫無覺知時，很容易就會遭逢誘惑。今天，放下罪咎，學會課題，擁有新層次的親密與天真無罪吧。祝你有個愉快的一天！

HEALING AFFAIRS is the card for today. Affairs are the ego's way of distracting us from going forward. They split our mind and have us go for a quality outside the relationship that our partner is just about to develop if the energy and attention is kept toward them. Even if we are so dissociated that we don't feel anything negative about it, our subconscious carries different levels of guilt about it which further causes a wedge with your partner or your new partner if you divorce. The ego wins with its separation which is what it is made out of. When we are dissociated or unaware it is easy to get tempted. Today is a great day to let go of the guilt, learn the lesson instead and have a new level of intimacy and innocence. Have fine day!!