療癒情緒操縱

【Chuck博士每日一卡】療癒情緒操縱

今天的卡片是療癒情緒操縱。如果我們不是拿情緒來療癒，我們就會拿情緒來攻擊，來嘗試控制別人，好滿足自己的需要，照自己的方式行事。而情緒操縱又會和別人的呼求幫助糾纏不清。這些情緒是在試圖勒索夥伴、家人、朋友、老天。然而情緒顯示的是，我們的內在有地方出了差錯。如果你想要幸福快樂、想要健康的話，那就不能忽略情緒、否認情緒。情緒反而是很好的指標，可以看出我們過去尚未完成的療癒，也可以看出我們正把情緒投射到別人身上。把情緒轉移到別人身上，這可不能稱為情緒成熟啊！祝你今天有個最美麗的療癒！

HEALING EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION is the card of the day. If we do not use our emotions for healing they become used as an attack and an attempt to control others to meet our needs and do it our way. This is mixed in with the cry for help that they are. These emotions are an attempt at blackmail toward partners, family, friends and God. But emotions show us a mistake we are making inside. Emotions can't be ignored or denied if you want to be happy and healthy but they are great indicators of what we haven't finished healing from the past and that we are also projecting on others around us. Emotional maturity is not displacing our emotions on others! Have a most beautiful day of healing!!