療癒對競爭的補償



【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒對競爭的補償》

今天的卡片是《療癒對競爭的補償》。我們因為自己的競爭而感覺糟糕時,會把這份感覺藏在某種防衛之下,以作出補償。這樣一來,就更難去找出、療癒這份感覺。競爭會破壞關係、破壞團隊合作,裡頭藏有對成功的恐懼。所作的補償或許是失敗、或許是不玩了,所以看起來不像是在競爭。無論如何,今天都適合來療癒競爭,以及掩飾競爭的補償。祝你有個美好的一天!

HEALING THE COMPENSATION OVER COMPETITION is the card for today. When we feel bad about our competition we hide it under some defense to compensate for it. This makes it harder to find and heal. Competition can ruin relationships and teamwork and it hides fear of success. A compensation may be losing or refusing to play so as not to appear competitive. At any rate today is a good day to heal both competition and the compensations that hide it. Have a wonderful day!!

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