想要擁有的唯一方式就是將它給出來

今天Chuck博士抽到的卡片是《想要擁有的唯一方式就是將它給出來》。

在某個層面上所有的問題都是企圖想從他人身上得到某種東西。所有的問題都是種抱怨，如果是個大問題，那就是在耍脾氣。在另一個層面上，所有問題的根源都來自選擇不給出，而把它隱藏起來。

我們給出的是那些你以為你需要被滿足的。你的天賦禮物仍然在你裏頭，等著您的看見和推動，去為你周圍那些需要的人而打開吧。

你所需要的都在你身上！所有你的受傷那是你害怕發光或恐懼你不能給。但它就是在你那。你為了獨立而打破的連繫，導致你試圖去要或去奪，但那卻使你更加痛苦。

我們不敢給，因為這會反彈回來，我們將失去自我的獨立性，但另一方面，我們將恢復自由和真理。

該是給出你想要及所需要的時候，因為你內在擁有它，而且因為你的給予讓你知道你絕對的擁有它。什麼會啟動你給出這些天賦禮物-是在你周圍的人迫切需要幫助時嗎？

當它其實是可以很容易做到時，不要讓自己被這麼地督促。如果你想要它，給出它，它是唯一的方法，除非你有勇氣接受。有一個美好！

THE ONLY WAY TO HAVE IT IS TO GIVE IT

Posted: 22 Jun 2011 03:06 PM PDT

THE ONLY WAY TO HAVE IT IS TO GIVE IT is the card for today. All problems at one level are an attempt to get something from someone. All problems are complaints and if the are big problems they are tantrums. At another level the root of all problems came from deciding to not give and hide instead. 

Our giving what you thought you needed fulfills you. Your gifts still wait within you for your recognition and motivation to open them for the people around you who need them.  

What you need is within you! All of your wounding was from the fear to shine or the fear that you couldn't deliver. But it is in you. The bonding you broke for independence led you to try to take or get, which only sets up more pain. 

We are afraid to give because that would rebond us and we would lose the independence of the ego but on the other hand we would regain freedom and truth. 

Time to give what you want and need because you have it within and giving lets you know you absolutely have. What would it take to motivate you to bring out these gifts--someone around you in dire need of help?

Don't let yourself be pushed that much when it can be so much easier. If you want it, give it; it's the only way unless you have the courage to receive.  Have a good one! By Chuck Spezzano