療癒以性作為攻擊


療癒以性作為攻擊
今天Chuck博士抽到的卡片是《療癒以性作為攻擊》。以性作為攻擊使許多男性和女性在性上退縮,除非他們把性當作自我貶低。如果對男人以性作為攻擊這與用性為一種控制是有同樣的效果,他們會放棄自己喜歡的事情,以免有這種情況發生,那你已經失去了你能激勵一個男人的最好方式。對女人而言,將只會把感情收起來,所以就不會可口多汁,沒有那麼濃郁,也沒有心而所有你得到的只是上下的“管道”。
攻擊別人就是攻擊你自己,你貶低了性的意義也關閉了讓性成為愛及溝通之門。當性成為一種政治,如同攻擊般,就失去了成為一個與別人聯繫的橋樑。性的攻擊導致另一種攻擊即是退縮攻擊。今天是個好日子,反思自己利用性在做什麼,並把它交託至你的高層心靈為你清理。讓它為了最高的完整而負責。有一個很棒的一天!

HEALING SEX AS AGGRESSION
Posted: 14 Jun 2011 08:20 AM PDT
HEALING SEX AS AGGRESSION is the card for today. Sex as aggression backs men and women away from sex unless they are into sex as self-debasement. If you use sex as aggression with men it has the same effect as using sex as control, they will give up their favorite thing so as not to have that happen and you have lost your best way of motivating a man. A woman will just close up emotionally so there will be no 'juice', no richness, no heart and all you get is the 'plumbing'.
 Attack on another is attack on you and you are lessening the meaning of sex and closing the door on sex as love or communication. Sex when it becomes political, such as with aggression, is lost as a vehicle to bridge to another. Sex as aggression causes another kind of aggression which is withdrawal. Today is a good day to reflect on what you are doing with sex and turn it over to your higher mind to straighten out for you. Let it be in charge for the highest integrity. Have a great day! By Chuck Spezzano

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