幸災樂禍和撅嘴的惡性循環

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今天Chuck博士的卡片是《幸災樂禍和撅嘴的惡性循環》。你會發現即使在​​最好的伴侶上，有著這個深深隱藏和嵌入的模式。它可能是細微的，也可能是明顯的。當你的伴侶正在慶賀勝利而你卻感覺不到喜慶發生，這時就發生了。基於我執的需要競爭與優越，我執建立了與劣等，膨脹和縮小，優勝者和劣敗者，輸和贏的惡性循環......這些會將你逐漸疏離你的伴侶，這滿足了我執，而不是關係。當一方有這樣時，另一方也會如此做，雖然它可能因補償而做。今天是意識到這個機制，然後放下它​​，甚至在你的生活和你的關係上去潔淨它......有個最好玩的一天！(譯者: 賴裕源 Translated by Ian Lai)
THE VICIOUS CIRCLE OF GLOATING AND POUTING
Posted: 21 Jan 2014 12:50 PM PST

THE VICIOUS CIRCLE OF GLOATING AND POUTING is the card for today. You will find this deeply hidden and embedded pattern in even the best couples. It can be subtle or it can be blatant. It occurs when your partner is celebrating a win and you feel less than celebratory. Based on the ego's need for competition and superiority which also sets up vicious circles with inferiority, inflated and deflated, top dog and underdog, winning and losing… These edge you away from your partner and feed your egos rather than the relationship. The extent one partner has it the other does also though it may be compensated for. Today is a day to become aware of this mechanism, let it go and get even cleaner in your life and your relationship…Have a most fun day!!

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療癒舊傷

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上天堂的旋轉門

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今天 Chuck 博士的卡片是《上天堂的旋轉門》。這是個為上帝及祂的愛的奧秘體驗的比喻。它是如此徹底深刻，所有我們所想要做的 ， 就是花時間在這經驗上。這透過我們帶來光明和愛來到世界，但我們想要做的唯一真實就是花時間在上帝上，因為其它所見的都是幻相 ...... 有個美好的一天 ...... 神聖的經驗是如此地接近！ ( 譯者 : 賴裕源 Translated by Ian Lai) THE REVOLVING DOOR TO HEAVEN Posted: 15 Feb 2014 10:29 PM PST THE REVOLVING DOOR TO HEAVEN is a metaphor for the mystical experience of God and His Love. It is so utterly profound that all we want to do is to spend time in this experience. This brings light and love into the world through us but all we want to do is spend time in God as the only reality because we see the rest for the illusion it is…Have a wonderful day…Divine experience is so close!!
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