療癒心碎

【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒心碎》

今天的卡片是《療癒心碎》。此時要來清理心碎，以及心碎的故事、陰謀與心魔人物。這一切會設計出權力鬥爭、報復、控制、憎恨、自我憎恨、罪惡感、恐懼、需要被關注、受害、獨立、犧牲，以及不配得的議題、故事、陰謀與心魔。心碎是場鬥爭，是背水一戰、最後的嘗試，試圖用情緒勒索來滿足需要。心碎是一種報復。心碎讓我們在生命中退縮，讓我們陷在支配與屈服的惡性循環裡。我們因此對自己關上心門。我們退縮了，拋棄了一部分的自己。今天，有著恩典，可以呈現出，我們只是害怕閃閃發光，沒有信心對夥伴或狀況踏出下一步而已。這樣，我們就會產生造成自我挫敗的自我概念，並渴望報復。現在，我們可以把自己的心找回來，走上正確感知的道路：對每個人都有責任，卻不懷著痛苦。祝你有個精彩展開的一天！

HEALING HEARTBREAK is the card for today. This is a time to clear heartbreaks, Heartbreak Stories, Heartbreak Conspiracies, and heartbroken shadow figures. All of these program power struggle, revenge, control, hatred, self-hatred, guilt, fear, neediness, victim, independent, sacrifice and unworthiness issues, stories, conspiracies and shadows. Heartbreaks are a fight, a last ditch attempt to get needs met through emotional blackmail. They are a form of revenge. They have us withdraw from life and catch us up in a vicious circle of domination and submission. As a result we close doors on ourselves. We withdraw and throw parts of ourselves away. Today grace is there to show that we were just afraid to shine and to trust enough to go to the next step with our partner or situation. This gave us self-defeating self-concepts and a desire for revenge. Now we can get our heart back and get path on the path of right perception which has total responsibility and no pain for anyone. Have a brilliantly unfolding day!!