療癒報復



【PoV願景心理學】 Chuck博士每日一卡 《療癒報復》

今天的卡片是《療癒報復》。任何失敗、匱乏,都是一種報復。我們會傷害自己,藉此報復別人;或是會直接攻擊對方。我們除了會攻擊旁人、父母,我們也會攻擊老天,因為老天沒有滿足我們的需要。而這就是生命與關係中最大的錯誤。報復是出於我們尚未穿越的心碎。而心碎其實是場鬥爭,在抗議某人沒有滿足我們的需要,同時也是害怕走下一步。今天,可以讓自己擺脫掉煽動報復的憎恨與自我憎恨。認出一切皆是幻相,就是在消弭幻相。這天,得著自由與寬慰,過個美妙的一天吧!

HEALING REVENGE is the card for today. Any type of failure or scarcity is a form of revenge. We hurt ourselves to get back at others or we directly attack them. Besides attacking the people around us and our parents we are also attacking God as not meeting our needs which qualifies as the biggest mistake in life and relationships. Revenge comes from heartbreaks we haven't gotten over which are part of a fight to protest that someone didn't meet our needs as well as our fear to go forward. Today is a good day to divest ourselves of the hatred and self-hatred that drive revenge. To recognize that anything is an illusion is to have it disappear. Have a most wonderful day of relief and freedom!!

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